Bastinado
Cuckolding
Sublime
Eye Contact
Gag
Element of Surprise
Golden Showers
Roman showers
Kidnapping
Eunuch
Piercing (Permanent, Play, Medical, Gaze)
Dragon Tail
Cat O’Nine Tails
Bullwhip
Chastity Cage
Homoflexible
Heteroflexible
Pansexual
Fluid (Sexual Identification, Lubricant, Smooth)
Oubliette
Teardrop (Device, Actual Tears)
Sub Space
Negotiation (Required and Forbidden)
Ovid
Venus in Furs
The Story of O
Power Exchange
Bisexual
Cross Dresser
Transvestite
Transexual
Topping from the Bottom
Sub (Not the sandwich)
Rigging
Winch (The device, not to be confused with Wench)
Forced Bi
Figging
Goddess
Bacchus
Gaia
Vampire Gloves
Cali’s Teeth
Slave
Throne
Discipline
Punishment
Consequence
Training
Houseboy
Full Time Slave
Vanilla
Adoration
Vulnerability
Intimacy
Trust
Communication
Flogging
Blood Letting
Edge Play
Asphyxiation
Latex
Latex Fetish (Balloons, and otherwise)
Cake Sitting
Sploshing
Trampling
Collar
Dog: Reference Iggy Pop: I Wanna Be Your Dog
Sadomasochist
Swing (Sex, the act)
Voyeur
Baby Doll
Furry
Leather Daddy
Bootblack
Bull
Queening
Queen Chair
Pony Play
Pet
Androgyny
Intersex
Femme Fatale
Asexual
Indentification
Autoclave
Masochism
Shibari
CBT
Fisting
Puppy Play
Neoprene
Watersports
Candleplay
Wax
Devotion
Permission
Rules
Edging
Nipple Torture
Interrogation
Confession
Chastity
Mummification
Sensory Dep
Belle du Jour
Ilsa Strix
Isabella Sinclaire
Dungeon
Valhalla
Absence
Punctuality
Surrender
Domme
Lifestyle
Wicked
Pain
Impact (play, the kind she had on me)
Switch
TPE
Authority
Slave Contract
Ruined Orgasm
Implements
Tens Unit
Convent School
Ache
Dew
Quiver
Mercy
Tease & Denial
Burn
Extreme Deviance
Hood
Automatic (song by prince)
The Masochism Tango (Lerner)
Venus in Furs (Song/Movie/Book)
Poison (Alice Cooper song)
Apologise
Rebel Girl (song by Bikini Kill)
Peaches (the song artist)
Sleeping Beauty Series (books by Anne Rice)
Story of O (Literature)
Mary Gaitskill
Midori (Dominatrix)
Catherine Robbe-Grillet
Marquis de Sade
Nom de Plume
A Dialogue Between a Married Woman and a Maid
Fanny Hill (1749 Literature)
Sonnet 58 (Shakespeare)
Baudelaire
Holy Sonnet XIV (John Donne)
Adrienne Rich
e.e.cummings
Lucile Clifton
Coco de Mer
Embarrassment
Catharsis
W.H.Auden (The Platonic Blow)
Aphrodite
Leopold von Sacher-Masoch
Pompeii (Villa of Mysteries)
Initiation
Juvenal (Roman poet- flagellation)
The Roman Frescos
Irving Klaw
Bettie Page
Cunnilingus (Pompeii description)
Under Your Thumb (Rolling Stones)
Marie Antoinette: Champagne Glass
Porta Tosa (Milan- The Door of the Shaving Lady)
Peruvian Sex Pottery
Baubo
Sabbath’s Theatre
Martin Amis
Ruby Shower
Curse Tablets of 7th Century Cyprus
Hermaphroditus
Rocky Horror Picture Show
Allan Ginsburg
Fascinus of Ancient Rome
Catullus
Walt Whitman (I Sing the Body Electric/I Dare Not Withdraw)
Araki
Man Ray
John Waters (Bondage Stroller)
Daido Moriyama
Blush (Cheeks and Cheeks)
Provocateur
The Warren Cup
Pederasty
Corregio (Leda & the Swan)
Rembrandt (The Monk in the Cornfield, 1646)
Egon Schiele
Katsushika Hokusai (The Adonis Plant, 1815)
The Pearl (1800s Publication)
Robert Mapplethorpe (Self Portrait with Whip, 1978)
Sarah Lucas
Édouard Manet (Olympia)
Toulouse Lautrec (La Toilette)
Van Gogh & Sien
Gil Elvgren
French Postcards
Gervex (Rolla)
Picasso (Les Demoiselles D’Avignon)
Grande Odalisque
Giacometti (Carolina/Yvonne Poiraudeau)
Sappho
Kim Addonizio (What Do Women Want?)
William Carlos Williams (Arrival)
Matsuo Basho (Three Short Poems)
Horace (Cyanara)
*Some words need to be defined from the submissive point of view and some from the dominants point of view
A good resource: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadism_and_masochism_in_fiction
http://www.thehypertexts.com/The%20Best%20Erotic%20Poems.html